Romance Guide: Kaidan Alenko

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Gender Preference Any
Romance Type Long-Term
Legacy Only No
Romance Scene Yes

Romance Guide for Kaidan Alenko in Mass Effect 3 features a guide on how to romance and have a relationship with Kaidan Alenko. Romance in Mass Effect 3 helps the players develop a romantic relationship with their desired Companion or NPC. Players will get a chance to interact with them, creating a deeper and meaningful relationship.

 

Romance Guide: Kaidan Alenko Information

  • Gender Preference: Any (Male or Female)
  • Romance Type: Long-Term
  • Legacy Only: No
  • Romance Scene: Yes
  • Unlocks the Paramour Achievement: Yes

 

 

How to Romance Kaidan Alenko

Basic Information

Kaidan Alenko is a Companion in Mass Effect 3. He is available for romance and a possible love interest towards a MALE or FEMALE version of Commander Shepard. You can continue or rekindle your relationship with him if you previously had a romance progress and imported your save file in Mass Effect 1. Take note that he must be alive in your playthrough during the events in Mass Effect 1 (Vimire: Assault) or if you are starting a new game, during Character Creation, make sure to choose that Ashley Williams was killed in action instead of him.

Hospital Visits

Everything will start when you are on a mission that is called Priority: MarsYour goal to start a good conversation with him by gaining his trust since he is highly suspicious of you. When Kaidan talks to you about your alliance with Cerberus, answer him with "It was a temporary alliance" and "You know me better than that" during the first scene, while on the second scene with her, choose the dialogues "How can you say that?", followed by "I never left".

At the end of your mission on Mars, Kaidan will be heavily injured where he'll spend most of his time recovering at the Huerta Memorial Hospital on the Citadel. While he is recovering, you can drop by Sirta Supplies in the hospital and purchase the TM88 - Peruvian Whiskey which you can give him later on - your conversations will be more important but giving him the gift will also improve your chances of romancing him.

While he is resting, visit him as much as you can, go do missions, and wait for Kaidan to send you an e-mail, indicating that you can visit him at the hospital. Now, if you were loyal to him and you didn't romance anyone in Mass Effect 2, then you will be able to re-establish your love for him. If ever you did romance someone in ME2, then you will have the chance to redeem yourself by explaining and apologizing to him. If you lie, it will make him angry and he'll ask you to leave his room.

The Citadel Coup

During the events in Priority: The Citadel II, things will escalate where Udina assists Cerberus in launching a coup against the Citadel Council and you'll have Kaidan in helping with escorting the council escape. In this mission, you will have to go pass Trust checks here which determines if Kaidan will side with you and also determines if she lives or dies. Check the information below to identify the number of points that can either strengthen or weaken your relationship with her, based on the following sequences and interactions:

  • +2 Points if you were able to romance her in Mass Effect 1.
  • +1 Point for sparing the council at the end of ME1, while sacrificing the council yields -1 Point
  • You get -2 Points if Kirrahe died in ME1, while Thane died in ME2. This causes events where no one is able to stop Kai Leng from killing the Salarian Councillor, as well as Udina fabricating footage showing that Shepard is the one killing them instead.
  • -1 Point for cheating on Kaidan with Jacob, Thane, or Garrus in ME2.
  • You'll get -1 Point as well if you do not apologize to him for cheating.
  • Choosing the Paragon options while you are on Mars yields +1 Point, while Renegade options provide -1 Point.
  • +2 Points for visiting him at the hospital when's she's awake while he is still recovering.
  • +1 Point for visiting her again at the hospital when he's recovered and accepted the Spectre position.
  • During the events in Priority: The Citadel II, at the confrontation scene outside the elevator, you'll be granted +1 Point for using a Paragon Interrupt to lower your weapons.

Now, during the confrontation scene outside the elevator in Priority: The Citadel II, your accumulated points will determine the flow of events:

  • Kaidan will automatically trust you if you have 4 or more points.
  • If you've accumulated between 0-3, players will need to win her over by passing a reputation check.
  • If you do not have enough reputation and have accumulated -1 points or less, Kaidan refuses to trust you and you'll be forced to kill him. If he dies, your chances of having a relationship and romance sequence with him will automatically be ceased.

Aboard the Normandy

Now, in the event that he does live, you'll be able to meet Kaidan again at the Normandy Dock: Bay D24 where you'll find out that she's been offered a job to join Adrimarl Hackett's team but he mentions that he'd rather work with you. This is a crucial moment for you to choose if you want to have a relationship with him:

  • Choosing "Welcome Aboard" will allow Kaidan to join the crew and he'll play as a Companion who you can take with him on missions.
  • If you select "I don't think so", then he'll join Hackett instead and for the entirety of the game (including the Citadel DLC), you won't be able to interact with him.

 

 

How to Lock in Kaidan Alenko

Meeting at Apollo Cafe

Inviting him to join your crew and aboard the Normandy progresses things forward into having a relationship with him. And from here, you can start building up that relationship. To seal the relationship, Kaidan needs to invite you over to meet with him at the Apollo Cafe of the Citadel. So do missions first, and always check up on him and talk to him when you can - also, be nice to him and choose caring dialogue lines.

When you are invited by Kaidan, he will reminisce about how he had beers with his parents back in Vancouver. Eventually, he will also reflect on the relationship between you two. When he says he's grateful that he has convinced you to come, answer him with "Glad we're getting to talk". Kaidan will also forgive you in this sequence for cheating on him on someone else in Mass Effect 2. Next, he mentions that he wants to know more about the relationship between you two and he asks you what you want, choose "I want to be together". This locks in the relationship between Shepard and Kaidan.

Events after Locking-in Kaidan

Now that you've said Yes to Kaidan, you've confirmed that he will be Shepard's love interest for the entirety of the game, meaning you won't be able to have another relationship with anyone else, besides him. One thing to take note of is that there are additional sequences and interactions with Kaidan if you own the Leviathan and Citadel DLCs.

Priority: Earth

In the events during the final mission, Priority: Earth, Kaidan will visit Shepard in your cabin on the Normandy where the Romance Scene will trigger and you'll have your last moments with him before the assault on Cerberus HQ. If players own the Extended Cut, during the final charge to the conduit beam, a Mako will overturn and land dangerously next to him. If Shepard's EMS is 1,749 or lower, a Harbinger will vaporize Kaidan with the laser beam. On the other hand, if it is 1,750 or higher, he will just be injured by the Mako and Shepard calls for an emergency extraction where the two will have their final moments.

Ending with Kaidan

After the firing of the Crucible, he will be seen placing Shepard's name on the Memorial Wall. On the other hand, if you picked Destroy and your EMS is 3,100 or more, he will smile and refrain from placing the plaque sensing that Shepard is still alive, and the Normandy is seen flying off.

 

 

Romance Guide: Kaidan Alenko Notes and Tips

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